Ni pulak kata2 dari Ustaz Azhar Idrus and Ustaz Don about being a housewife.
Wah..banyak pahala tuh......Ha apa lagi,berhenti kerja then duk umah jaga anak,kan senang!
Ye ke Senang?It is not easy as you think actually..But before i proceed,i nak highlight kat sini,since this is my blog,thus this is only my opinion towards this topic ye.There's no right or wrong when it comes to opinion.
When you as a CAREER WOMEN/wanita bekerjaya decided or wants to be a fulltime housewife/surirumah,you have to think again and again BEFORE you make decison.
Think pros and cons to be a housewife and at the same time you have to get ready dan terima hakikat sumber kewangan keluarga will come from THE ONLY SOURCES OF INCOME.
Sometimes,bila you decide nak resign and become housewife,dia akan jadi "BIG ISSUE" lagi besar dari isu Shahrizat jalalludin(bukan nama sebenar) ngan lembu-lembu nya di NFC..or isu Datin Ro*m*h belanja sakan di Australia,or isu PAS ngan UMNO..(eh,ada kena mengena ke?,hehe)..or isu2 hangat kat harian Metro "Dahaga kasih abang lori"(tajuk tak boleh blah) or sebagainya..hahaha.
Sebab other than your husband,parents pun sebenarnya takut nak bagi anak or menantu diaorg jadi housewife.Sebab automatically soalan2 "What If" tu akan puzzle in their mind.Contoh soalan?
*What if you kena divorce?(sebab husband kawin ngan janda sebab asyik minum kopi janda.wakaka)
*What if husband you meninggal nanti?
*What If ....What If ....etc
Ada reasonnya kenapa diaorg jadikan isu besar.Maybe diaorg takut anything happen to us in future,ie:kena divorce or husband meninggal and malangnye masa tu,wife tak de sources of income.
Or Maybe ada yg parents yg rasa rugi dia hantar anak belajar tinggi-tinggi,sudahnya jadi housewife sbb typical orang kita pandang rendah if you become a housewife.
In my humble opinion,What if question ni memang tak dapat kita jwab skrg sebab Semua jawapan adalah pada masa hadapan.
Those yang tengah berfikir to resign and become fulltime housewife,my opinion senang je:
Jangan terlalu berfikiran negatif apabila mahu membuat sesuatu yang positif. And don't be too worry pada sebarang kemungkinan yang tiada kepastian. Kalau kita dah ada sebuah rumahtangga yang baik, kenapa pula kita perlu kisah kepada perkara-perkara yang tidak sepatutnya?. .
Lumrah hidup memang macamni..if you rasa bahagia,and yg penting your husband redha apa lagi kita nak risaukan?Bukankah redha suami tu lagi penting?.
Tetapi, adalah tetapi nya...before you decided to resign it is much more better for you to prepare and discuss a few things as your own good.
Apa yang kena buat?
1.Listkan Pros and Cons on your decison.
Kebanyakan decision yang i buat based on this economy formula :
MARGINAL BENEFIT > MARGINAL COST
or dalam bahasa melayu
Marginal Benefit = Faedah tambahan/kelebihan
Marginal Cost = Kos tambahan
contoh situasi :
Berhenti kerja dan Sambung belajar
Bila you sambung belajar,you have to pay the fees/yuran kan?So that will be your additional cost or kos tambahan pada you or Marginal Cost.
Tapi apa yang you dapat?.You dapat knowledge,then your value will be more higher (gaji yang you earn nanti will be much more higher sbb you dah ada higher qualification),so,that is called Marginal Benefit.
Thus,If you rasa Marginal benefit you more than cost,you will likely continue with the best decision.
Suka saya nak ingatkan untuk saya and readers...Benefit tu,tak semestinya DUIT,it can be anything that can give something or value for you.
Contoh : if i resign;
i can take care my own daughters .(Save RM500 sebulan upah jaga kat baby sitter,tu jadi my upah lah now.hehee)
i boleh fully breastfeed Amni(alhamdulillah till now dah dekat 10 month still breastfeed lagi,tu pun benefit jugak)
i boleh jaga my own family dengan lebih baik (rumah bersih & kemas,hari2 boleh basuh baju,boleh masak,so konsep jaga perut dan hati husband tu bolehlah tercapai..hehe.
kalau i kerja,dengan umah tunggang langgangnye,baju 3-4 hari baru nak basuh,lipat tu memang tak sempatlah..guna sistem bakul je,then kais2.hahahah,selalu makan kat luar so lama-lama dapur pun dah lupa kat mana.(tipulah tu,rumah bukan besar sgt ponn.hehe).
Ha,tu semua kira additional benefit jugak.Benefit tu kadang2 kita tak nampak,sebab it is intangible or value that we will get it in future.
2.Kena Buat Financial planning(ini wajib).
Sebelum you buat decision,buat dulu financial plan.sebab lepas ni income you dah semakin kecil sebab hanya seorang yang bekerja.So you kena plan la:
-who's gonna pay for car?
-who's gonna pay for loan?(personal loan,ptptpu loan.hehe,credit card lagi)
if your husband can pay all these then why should you wait for?resign je lah.=D
Macam i,kitaorg dah buat financial plan dari awal.
Our plan:
My savings = at least 6 months of my current salary.
katalah gaji you RM3000,so savings yang you perlu ada = 3000*6= RM18000 at least untuk you hidup dengan tenang (at least cukup untuk bayar monthly commitment you sendiri untuk half year).
Abis tu,if yang tak de savings langsung camne?Haish..apa tanya saya pulak,tanya lah your husband tu,if dia ok,and sudi menaja you ols tak payah lah fikir sume tu.ye tak?
I will be happy when my husband fulfill everything that i want.However,it much more happier when i can give the best for my self and family WITHOUT susahkan my hubby.
3.Ada Back up Plan.
Semua orang perlu ada back up plan sebab tak semua yang kita rancang akan jadi as what we wants.Kita kan hanya merancang,Allah yang tentukan segalanya.So buat back up plan tu memang perlu so that you akan hidup tenang dan tenteram without stress.=D
4.Cari Side Income/Extra Income
Bangun pagi,prepare breakfast,hantar anak (yang ada anak sekolah lah),kemas rumah,basuh baju,sidai kain,Masak lunch,fetch anak,teman anak buat homework,masak minum petang,masak dinner,husband balik teman dinner,then kemas rumah lagi sekali,then tido..repeat again and again..
Typical housewife akan rasa jadi housewife memang tak seronok and boring,sbb everyday you will repeat the same routine.Why not we came out with a new thing.everyday create a new things yang boleh buat kita ceria.Macam2 boleh buat.Ada yang mula2 start daripada hobi then kadang-kadang it can be turn to your income.who knows?ramai yg macam tu pun.
Siapa kata duduk kat rumah tak boleh buat duit?sometimes,org yang duduk rumah earn more income daripada org yang kerja kat office 8jam tuh.
I memang jenis tak boleh duduk diam.So eventhough i dah officially resign from my current position,tapi i tetap jugak kerja..tapi instead of kerja kat office 8jam,i change it by WORK FROM HOME.
So far alhamdulillah..memang rezeki Allah tu ada kat mana2.kita sebagai hamba kenalah berusaha jadi yang lebih baik dari dulu.Apa kerja yang you boleh buat dari rumah?Ni i just want to share apa yang i dah buat ye..so far my income lebih daripada income makan gaji.
4.1 Join Business.
Before resign i dah siap comeout with plan.Setiap business apa yang i nak buat i akan tengok marketing plan dia and i akan amik kira marginal benefit and cost before i decide.Antara yang i join:
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Adanya blog ni sebab i decided untuk jadi authorized agent for Produk kesihatan from Hai-O (Coz i percaya produk dia produk yang terbaik).
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Berbanding dengan Adsense yang mana anda mendapat pendapatan daripada setiap klik yang dijana, dengan affiliate program anda mendapat komisyen daripada setiap jualan.
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So as the conclusion,
Siapa kata surirumah tak boleh buat duit?.Ni antara cara i buat income,so tak de alasan untuk kata tak bole.
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Salam 1 Malaysia! eventhough dah lepas pon..biasalah public holiday mestilah ramai jalan-jalan kan?i ponnn..this time my family went jalan-jalan to penang (World heritage).
"Melawat penang sama seperti melawat malaysia"...wallah!!..
i don't remember how many times i've been there..few times jugaklah..tapi for me ada SATU improvement yg sangat ketara kat penang is PENANG MAKIN BERSIH!!!.sooo positive kan??i rasa mcm pergi singapore pulak..
Tapi ada yang i tak suka pasal penang antaranya..jalan sempit,dah lah sempit sesak pulak tuh,tambah lagi pemandu yang super duper biadap parking sesuka hati,overtake kereta..etc...huhu..tension betul.
So bila dah ke sana,biasalah kita jalan2 cari makan .
Top demanded food in penang (based on my observation lah..)
1.laksa penang
2.nasi kandar
3.pasemboq
4.char kuey teaw
5.jeruk/buah pala
teringin ke? gi start kereta gi penang sendiri.=p
mother of two daughters..=D
Laksa penang..letak otak udang .dulu masa kecik2 i memang tak sentuh otak udang coz my mom ckp nanti otak lembab,now dah besar, bantai jelah.eh,sambung belajar master jugak.ok jer.haha.
next time bila you ols gi penang gi cari kat mana ada pasembur yang tak Famous??hehe,semua confirm tulis pasembur famous nye.
So today kita cerita pasal food..why??eh,i punya suka lah nak cerita pasal apa..dah i punya blog kan?hehe..
lately i asyik dapat berita sedih je..sana sini cerita pasal orang yang kita sayang either passed away because of cancer or suffering from cancer,or baru dapat tau kena cancer...or other health problem like diabetis ke,jantung or etc..
Penyakit sekarang dah tak kira tua or muda..and if you google or you ask doctor,One of the reason of our health problem is because of FOOD..
Nowadays,i rasa u ols also will agree,we have to move faster,sume benda kita nak cepat kan? makan makanan segera,mee segera..
if yang masak pun,sume pilih barang yg segera jugak,macam perencah or paste segera sbb nak mudahkan kita memasak..
Yang bekerja pun apa kurangnya,sume nak siap dgn segera ,kadang-kadang naik pangkat pon segera(opps!!)..sume nak segera/cepat ..betul tak??.
and the consequences...
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Mati pun segeraa.hehehe.(just kidding)
Ok..(now tukar tone nada serius sket).We know that we needs to eat to continue our life,and kalau kita ikut cara diet yang betul kita perlukan food grains,fruit and veges,meat pun penting sbb bg protein..but..do we know that there are harmful bacteria that may be in the soil or water yang still stick with our food and contaminate them??
Sebelum ni,i selalu dgr..ayam sekarang and ayam dulu banyak beza,ayam sekarang ayam inject ngan hormon sebab nak bg cepat besar and cepat dijual,same goes for vegetables and fruits..coz they are grown by using different kinds of chemical fertilizers,pesticides sebab apa?sebab nak protect them from insects&pests,and sebab farmer pon nak untung jugak..
Eh, dia pon belajar ekonomi & accounting tau.Dalam fikiran dia..if dia guna baja/fertilizer dia boleh increase the yield of their own crops,
pastu..if dia guna pesticides spray..sayur2an dia nampak cantik segar bugar..selera sikit orang nak beli..padahal ulat pun tak nak makan sebab tau,if dia makan confirm mati!.haha.
TETAPI....(ada tetapi),TAHUKAH ANDA?? Semua fruits, vegetables or ayam,ikan,meat tu still contain harmful germs and viruses which couldn't be removed easily by ordinary washing methods???? Then what is the consequencess??
Eating of such contaminated food can lead to food borne diseases as these harmful contents entering our body, induce many diseases such as Cancer, Parkinson's disease, Kidney Damage, Diarrhoea, Shortness of breath, etc. affecting immune system of human body.
Contamination of food products by pesticides and other micro-organisms is a severe problem for today's life as we are bound to consume such contaminated food in our daily meal.
So,apa kita boleh buat? ada beberapa solution :
1.Tanam and ternak ayam/lembu sendiri(is not easy right?)
OR
2.Beli barang organic..semua change to organic.( a bit pricey and tak tentu bersih,plus tiap bulan you have to buy.anak sorang dua maybe tak terasa sgt.if anak lebih 5 orang??so perbelanjaan pun bertambah banyak)
OR.
Paling senang dan boleh diguna untuk jangkamasa panjang..
3.Buy food purifier.(senang,jimat coz you only have to buy once in your lifetime)
Bio zonefood purifier by Hai-O comes ahead with a complete solution to the contaminated food treatment. That will avail the Ozonation technology yang boleh menolong kita cleaning the food items e.g. Food grains, Fruits, Vegetables & Meat etc. There would be full protection against health hazards occurring due to pesticides, germs and other bio-organisms.
Food purfier ni sangat effective on pesticides, bacteria and other harmful germs & viruses for powerful oxidizing and disinfecting effects of Ozone.
The most important thing ,It preserves nutrition value & freshness of food. Thus, we can eat clean and healthy food.
dah tu,mesti you all tanya pulak kenapa mesti Ozon??
For your information Ozone
acts 3000 times faster than chlorine and is the strongest oxidant commercially
available for air & water treatment.
Water filters don't have
the ability to actually kill any bacteria in water. Even if you filter water, it
is not safe of deadly bacteria.
i just nak tunjukkan gambar demo by my mentor Hanis Haizi and video about Biozone food purifier for you to think..
tanpa sedar..badan kita penuh dengan toksin berpunca dari makanan..
apatah lagi..kalau kita selalu sgt makan Fast Food /junk food (makanan yg dah diprocess coz dia dah lalui macam2 process yg kita tak tau ntah apa dia letak untuk bg dia tahan lama etc.
selama ni,i hanya ada water purifier and air purifier tapi i tak pernah tau yang FOOD purifier sebenarnya LAAGI important for our health..
Bayangkan selama ni...toksin2 yg ada dlm badan tak keluar dari badan...patutlah makin banyak penyakit yang hinggap.muda2 pun dah kena diabetis..muda2 dah kena cancer..muda2 dah mcm2 penyakit..all is because of FOOD.
if you tengok video nih..ozone tu akan keluarkan buih and bila dia bakar buih tu..amazingly dia TAK MELTS/CAIR alngsung...wah...bayangkan dalam tubuh kita bersarang mcm2.
My last word, if you mampu beli i-pad/i-phone/gadget terkini or luxury items ,kenapa mesti berkompromi untuk kesihatan family ??
REMEMBER:Money is important,but health is more important as you earn income when you're fit/healthy.Bila dah sakit/terlantar..nak kerja pun tak boleh/tak larat so macammana nak dapatkan income sara family?
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Retail price is RM1750.
Those yang nak extra income starting RM 6000++ which will be credited on 15th Oct(nextmonth),do call me to set appointment.
First and foremost,Selamat Hari Merdeka yang ke 55 today,Semoga kita sama2 lebih menghayati erti kemerdekaan bukan shj freedom fizikal,but take into consideration on our mental and spiritual.MERDEKA! MERDEKA! MERDEKA! .
ok,now i nak cerita pasal kegilaan org sekarang,sana sini org bercerita pasal video kat youtube which is Gangnam Style..napa i kata kegilaan..sebab viewers dia dah dekat 80 million!!..x ke gila namanya tuh??i je tengok lebih 5 kali..=p.
Ha tengok ni...
I don't know about this video,but recently,my student came to see me to show his tablet.coz i nak beli tablet from dia which is much more cheaper than the market price..yang i beli ni tablet from taiwan,rm300++ with 1 year warranty,i beli sbb ada function yg sama and for me apa ada dengan brand.bak kata my sister "apa guna ada i pad/i-phone kalau bayar sewa rumah or kereta pun sangkut!".wakaka!(sorry pada yg terasa,sbb memang nak bg korang terasa pon..haha)
So my student tunjuk i quality video tablet tu,dari situlah dia tunjuk i about Gangnam Style video ni,dia tanya i "miss tak tau ke video ni??,famous gila ni.." so i cakap memang i tak tau,and never seen this vid before.then esoknya pulak masa i ngah drive pergi office in the morning, Hot.fm buat topic pagi diaorg pasal Gangnam Style ni.Oleh kerana class i kul 8.00 pagi,so i dapat dengar sikitjelah..tapi setakat yang i dengar memang mcm2 komen pendengar,ada yg kata best..ada yg kata biasaje setakat tarian kuda tu apalah yg bestnya.so habisje class masuk office,i try cari video n and watched.After watching the vid,to my surprise what 70++ million viewers?apa yg best sangat???ke i yang tak de perasaan or buta seni??hahaha.
So,i tanya my gorgeous roomie,Cindy.she's korean girl..(korean people memang cantik2).so i asked her what's the meaning of Gangnam?Then she said ceritanya macamni:
Gangnam actually is a place in seoul korea..it is a rich people area.Dekat korea it is a common bila org berhutang..and kebanyakan org2 kaya kat situ pun memang kaya dengan hutang..so,actually the video is a parody of a rich people there,with the message "Don't judge a book by its cover"..
Hok aloh...itu je ke?tapi org bole gila kan??.For me lebih kurang je macam kat Malaysia kan?kaya ke tak kaya ke berhutang jugak..so kalau yg sedar diri tu buatlah side income lebih,or kurangkan perbelanjaan..atau boleh je pergi mana2 financial consultant or pergi financial planning seminar yg free macam my previos company Amanah Saham Nasional Berhad or ASNB buat.Nak buat side income with more than RM 4000++ for starting boleh je call i.=D
Dulu,ni lah kerja i,bg seminar kewangan untuk masyarakat
So itu jelah sebenarnya cerita di sebalik Gangnam style yg jadi kegilaan orang termasuklah readers yang tangah membaca my blog ni...=p.So,apa yang best sgt buat tarian kuda tu??hanya org yg "Tau seni" je kot yg tau.hehehehe.I malas nak kutuk..hehe
Layan je lah gambar-gambar ni..
I tak tahu sangat "Gangnam style"...tapi i tau "Ganyang style"..tunggujelah...sapa2 yang kacau husband i...ha,nanti adalah video "Ganyang style" tu.hahahahha.masa tu,bukan setakat 80million viewers..infinity terus.(membayangkan video tu,tiap kali ganyang,tiap kali tu lah ada perkataan "Ganyang Style".sambil joget tenuk.hahaha.)
Ok lah..Those yang nak buat side income starting from rm4000+++ do call me !!!..NAK ke TAK NAK?
